SHARING
EXPERIENCE
-Muaz Ahamed Fathahullah-
Since I was small as a child I used to share each
and every incident of mine with my family and friends. Sometimes too with
unknown ones, who seem to be moving, close when I am alone and when I am
travelling. Because I believe that the character 'Muaz' means me, playing a
different role with his life in the society as everyone does. And also faces
many different types of incidents as sometimes I may the only person who faced
such an incident among whomever with me. So I just go through like this, if I
share that, it will be really a favor, a Sadaka (charity) as making comfortable
to face such an incident for those who meet after me.
Also I must say that this is not specified to me
alone. Because everyone have their different life with different experience. So
I feel there’s no any wrong on sharing something which will be really helpful
and useful what they faced.
But is it correct?
In my life many characters have made me to think
like this. Because they say that it’s just like boasting. They may think like
that because, almost I come over every incident successfully. Alhamdulillah.
Any way I have an answer for them, who think so.
'I am a Muslim. So Almighty Allah should help me. He
helps, so it’s no more hard to me'.
But sometimes those negative approaches demotivate
me, mostly when my so close ones think as I mentioned above. That time I just
feel to give up everything and be quite. Earlier I was a social blogger and as
I didn't get much time for update latest issues, I turned my way as a personal
blogger. Also to help others without wasting my talent on writing. So again I
don't feel anything wrong there. And also one day, I have to answer about what I
have given with as how I used it?
From nearby I have reduced my habit of sharing
experience unless with whomever directly likes to hear me and whomever likes to
gain something. Alhamdulillah I have got such students and well wishers with
me.
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Proudly I can say that I have found many brothers
and sisters in Islam, through my attempt, who motivates me in my work. So I
won't give up this until my hands fail to write and until my brain fail to coordinate,
Insha Allah. Because I still remember a reply from one of my very close sister
Shaazlah, for my message on a great disappointment after some say I am boasting
through my writings. She said that,
'If your intension is clear and if you’re doing it
for the sake of Allah, then don't leave the Shaithan (devil) to whisper to you.
Because he will do anything to stop us and who do the righteous deed'.
Also she said that,
If they are saying so (i.e. you are boasting), it’s
their error on judgment. Imagine if one person’s life changed by you'.
Her words remind me the words of Prophet Mohammed
(PBUH) to Ali (R.A) as,
'If a person gained Hidayath through you, it's all
enough to gain the Jannah (the heaven).
Once, one of my class mate Afdhal, said that he had
gained many thing from my blog. Alhamdulillah.
Really the demotivators may not know the true
happiness gained by such Dawwah. How many times I get a chance to say
Alhamdulillah. They may don't realize that.
Moreover, as to me, my reality is, 'I need to make everyone’s view on an incident, not
just as it happened or finished, but why it happened and how it happened.
At last, I like to say thanks to everyone who helped
me and who waits for my writings.
