SHARING EXPERIENCE

SHARING EXPERIENCE

-Muaz  Ahamed Fathahullah-

Since I was small as a child I used to share each and every incident of mine with my family and friends. Sometimes too with unknown ones, who seem to be moving, close when I am alone and when I am travelling. Because I believe that the character 'Muaz' means me, playing a different role with his life in the society as everyone does. And also faces many different types of incidents as sometimes I may the only person who faced such an incident among whomever with me. So I just go through like this, if I share that, it will be really a favor, a Sadaka (charity) as making comfortable to face such an incident for those who meet after me.

Also I must say that this is not specified to me alone. Because everyone have their different life with different experience. So I feel there’s no any wrong on sharing something which will be really helpful and useful what they faced.

But is it correct?

In my life many characters have made me to think like this. Because they say that it’s just like boasting. They may think like that because, almost I come over every incident successfully. Alhamdulillah. Any way I have an answer for them, who think so.

'I am a Muslim. So Almighty Allah should help me. He helps, so it’s no more hard to me'.

But sometimes those negative approaches demotivate me, mostly when my so close ones think as I mentioned above. That time I just feel to give up everything and be quite. Earlier I was a social blogger and as I didn't get much time for update latest issues, I turned my way as a personal blogger. Also to help others without wasting my talent on writing. So again I don't feel anything wrong there. And also one day, I have to answer about what I have given with as how I used it?

From nearby I have reduced my habit of sharing experience unless with whomever directly likes to hear me and whomever likes to gain something. Alhamdulillah I have got such students and well wishers with me.

Proudly I can say that I have found many brothers and sisters in Islam, through my attempt, who motivates me in my work. So I won't give up this until my hands fail to write and until my brain fail to coordinate, Insha Allah. Because I still remember a reply from one of my very close sister Shaazlah, for my message on a great disappointment after some say I am boasting through my writings. She said that,

'If your intension is clear and if you’re doing it for the sake of Allah, then don't leave the Shaithan (devil) to whisper to you. Because he will do anything to stop us and who do the righteous deed'.

Also she said that,

If they are saying so (i.e. you are boasting), it’s their error on judgment. Imagine if one person’s life changed by you'.

Her words remind me the words of Prophet Mohammed (PBUH) to Ali (R.A) as,

'If a person gained Hidayath through you, it's all enough to gain the Jannah (the heaven).

Once, one of my class mate Afdhal, said that he had gained many thing from my blog. Alhamdulillah.

Really the demotivators may not know the true happiness gained by such Dawwah. How many times I get a chance to say Alhamdulillah. They may don't realize that.

Moreover, as to me, my reality is, 'I need to make everyone’s view on an incident, not just as it happened or finished, but why it happened and how it happened.

At last, I like to say thanks to everyone who helped me and who waits for my writings.